Phew. I think it just hit me that I'm old, old. Well, in the working life, HOLY COW, 30-Years of Teaching OLD.
Next weekend, I'll see my 14th class graduate from Fairfield University. It seems surreal to even think about it. On Friday, we celebrated outstanding students and I was lucky to nominate Joanna Dalton with colleagues, including Dr. Brittney White. I recognize Bryan in the picture, but how has so much life begun to show in his body. Remarkable, actually, because I remember my own graduations, all those of Brown School graduations, the Syracuse doctoral graduation, and now the convocations at Fairfield U.
That means there have been years where students have had to endure my semi-intellectual, always comedic moronic ways in the classroom.
I guess it is an inevitable fate to age, look back, and wonder...how did it all go by so quick.
And I'm sure for my mother, Sue, it is even more incredible...as she has 80 years+ of such reflections (we captured some of
them here for her birthday). I mean, it's Mother's Day and my mother is wearing her Sally Jesse Raphael glasses and dressing like an audience member in the Oprah Winfrey audience.
I'm reflecting on what she's reflecting and I wonder if, as a mom, she ever listed her top ten best and top ten worst moments of being a mom after 80 years, 55 of them with children, 20-something with grandchildren.
I was trying to remember the diet ice cream shop that became a fad when Lori and my mom started their Weight Watcher craze. I just remember we always had those cups in our freezers. I was also thinking about the time she, Chitunga and I visited Hamilton, and he got to hear and see stories from my mother's house, the town, and a ride up to the old camp.
I know the pictures behind my mom have been updated from the ones in this photo, but for years it was our senior photos and the one of Cynde and Mike (before or after marriage, I can't remember). I believe here she is opening one of my sent-from-Kentucky gifts when I missed important days like Mother's Day. I'm guessing this one is a birthday...20 or so years ago.
Yep, I'm simply blipping my time in life in the ways all my aunts, uncles, grandparents, and cousins have been blipping, leaving their marks and moments onto me as a younger version of myself, as I blip, blow, and bloop the memories I create with those who look up to me (or at me)(or with a tendency to ignore me).
As I age, I'm starting to see more of my grandpa Spence - the Ripley genes have always been strong with Cynde and me, while Casey favors the Crandalls (although Casey's son sort of favors Cynde ... it's all messed up, but it's life)
Ah, two more project to grade, the lawn, and then the panic of: WAIT! What now?